My last trip to the Park had an unexpected turn of events. As I sat watching my two-year-old Dig Those Dinos while my four year old rode the Coastersaurus with our family friends, I overheard another mom tell her kids some tips on what to do if the were to get separated. “Let’s meet here if you get lost.” Her husband promptly said, “They won’t get lost!” I wanted to stand up for the mom who was simply being cautious by saying something like, “You never know, it could happen.” But I simply made mental note of their conversation as a potential blog topic then continued helping my two year old with her sand castle.

Fifteen minutes later our group had made our way up to the Imagination Zone so we could check out the brand new Hero Factory. All the kids in our group scattered to the various play tables as some found their way into the XBOX room. I did the usual kid head count and came up short by one. My two-year-old was nowhere to be found. I walked briskly through the various Imagination Zone rooms trying not to panic, but she was gone.

Slight panic kicked in and, despite the fact that shock had taken away all feeling in my legs, I turned my walk into a run retracing our steps back toward DINO ISLAND. In my rational mind I knew that wherever she was, she was fine, because I know from having worked there that they have an efficient, effective plan in place for re-uniting kids with their parents. I know that once a child is reported missing, the front gates close immediately, a code is transmitted over all walkie-talkies and all employees drop what they are doing to look for the child. Before I could even find an employee to help me, a mom who was having her caricature drawn noticed the visible concern and said, “Are you missing a little girl? She’s at lost and found.”

I breathed a slight sigh of relief but still continued to run to her. Run. A minute later, when I was re-united with her in Guest Services, she had a smile on her face and was playing with some LEGO bricks. I hugged her tightly and profusely thanked the Park employees that had helped her.

In total, it was probably only five to ten minutes that we were a part, but those few moments seemed like an eternity. For a parent, it’s a terrifying experience, maybe harder on the parent than on the child. I am grateful for the family that helped her and for the staff at LEGOLAND for being so proactive and proficient at finding lost children.

Luckily, my four year old was having the time of her life back in the Imagination Zone, playing the Kinect game 20,000 Leaks, with our family friends that she didn’t even notice that I was off finding her sister.

Though none of us parents want to think about our child going lost or missing, just like the dad I overheard earlier that morning, it is certainly a potential reality in any public, crowded space. Here are some precautionary steps you can take to avoid it happening to you.

1) Have a photo of the child from that day so you can show people who are helping you look what the child looks like that day. This one is easy nowadays with the prevalence of smart phones.
2) Pin a piece of paper on the inside of your child’s clothes or write with sharpie on their stomach their name and all of your contact information.
3) Set an easily accessible meeting spot first thing upon entering the Park.
4) Introduce your kids to an employee upon entering the Park so that they can identify a safe person to approach for help if they are lost.
5) Wear bright colors. No need to bring back the 80’s with matching day-glo tees but bright, primary colors are much easier to spot in a crowd.

And for you parents, if you find yourself in this situation, the best thing you can do is to find a Park employee and let them know. That person will radio to the Park Security department immediately and you will be reunited with your child in no time. Have fun and be safe!

Brick regards,
Model Mom Mary

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3/7/2011 8:47:50 AM #

Gina

Losing my son in a Target store 18 years ago was the most terrifying three minutes of my life. That being said, this article is full of great information. Thank you.

Gina United States |

3/7/2011 10:23:27 AM #

Tim@sogeshirts

Wow Mary that is scary. I can only imagine what a panic that would be. I would definitely say that it would be harder on the parent than the child for that short period of time. Legoland does do a good job of finding lost kids separated from their parents. Those were some good tips.

Tim@sogeshirts United States |

3/7/2011 1:04:08 PM #

San Diego Momma

This stopped my heart just reading it. Such GOOD tips...some I've never even thought of...Thanks for being so honest about your experience.

San Diego Momma United States |

3/7/2011 3:04:06 PM #

Denise

I would have never thought of the sharpie tip. Really great one. I have two 16 month old twins and they scamper when they have the chance. Glad she didn't get too far!

Denise United States |

3/8/2011 3:15:08 AM #

Kathy

These are very helpful tips.  Thanks for sharing them.

Kathy United States |

3/8/2011 3:21:51 AM #

Bonnie Bonnie Lass

Timely and heart stopping advice- thank you.
I think my girls will love the Sharpie tip.

Bonnie Bonnie Lass Canada |

3/8/2011 3:30:55 AM #

HipMamaB

Scary! When I was about 8 I got "lost" at Disneyland while on a summer camp field trip. I spent the day in Lost and Found until the camp counselor noticed I was gone.. different times. LOL. I usually put my business card with my cell phone on it in my kid's pockets... But I didn't know that LL locked down the gates. That's GREAT to know!

HipMamaB United States |

3/8/2011 3:45:13 AM #

Sondra

I like the tip about taking a pic of your kid that day so you know exactly what he/she was wearing. In a panicked state, I can just imagine not being able to remember what shirt my son put on in the morning...

Sondra United States |

3/8/2011 6:32:05 AM #

Teri Carcano

These horror stories are the reason we developed CallMeCuffs. Eco-friendly, customized wristbands for kids to be worn whenever/wherever there is a chance they may wander off and get separated from you. It's truly one of every parents greatest fears. The cuffs are customized with your mobile phone number and are tear/water/smudge resistant. So let them wear them in pirate shores at legoland and have no fear that they will disappear with all that water!
www.callmecuffs.com

Teri Carcano United States |

3/8/2011 10:33:11 AM #

Jen S

Great tips for keeping kids safe and adult's peace of mind. Very useful info nannies, babysitters, counselors etc. As a former camp counselor/mentor I have(unfortunately) heard and seen a few things. I know 1st hand our wonderful LL lost and found staff are. After a camper was not to be found exiting a ride one very busy summer day I my heart sank. The group of kids knew exactly what to do: stay together, calm and go to our meeting place with one counselor while another staff went to Guest services. Yup she was there. 10 minutes later the camper was back with the group happy as can be.
Also a good tip is to speak with parents about policies cause kids will talk.

Jen S United States |

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